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Monday, 30 November 2009
Physio
He asked lots of questions, some of them he asked three times which got a bit annoying. He moved my legs about into various positions and eventually came to the conclusion that i just need to build up some muscle strength in my legs which will help the whatever-it-is in my knee cope and heal better. So, basically he told me to join the gym, as I was intending to do, and see how that goes for at least a month before deciding if I need to see the doctor for further tests.
So, now I have no excuse NOT to go to the gym. I guess I will have to make an appointment for a look-around at one, probably Virgin Active as it looks like it has a lot of variety of equipment. I will, however, need to get some decent training shoes before I start as the only ones I have at the moment are about 7 years old and are threadbare between the soles and uppers!!! A task for tomorrow I think.
Tired Still
I am guessing that, despite all the porn films that I have watched that hint to the contrary, my physiotherapist is not going to be a stunning Adonis who wants to examine my whole body intimately, so I am not dressing to thrill. I'm just making sure that I have trousers that I can roll up above my knee, which is the area under scrutiny at the moment.
Other than this though, I have nothing planned for my day today or tomorrow day either. Then tomorrow night I am aiming to go to Soho, Comptons in particular as they are having an auction of the Kings Cross Steeler boys. I won't be bidding for one but there may be some flesh on show, who knows?
30th November
LGBT people born today:
1869 – Konstantin Somov – Russian Artist – Died 6th May 1939
1904 – Robert Odeman – German Pianist / Actor / Composer – Died 14th January 1985
1914 – Charles Hawtrey – UK Actor – Died 27th October 1988
1938 – Richard Lipez – US Author
1943 – Jerry Hunt – US Composer – Died 27th November 1993
1968 – Tommy O’Haver – US Director
1978 – Clay Aiken – US Singer
And those who died:
1900 – Oscar Wilde – Irish Playwright – Born 16th October 1854
1944 – Eoin O’Duffy – Irish General – Born 20th October 1892
1977 – Terrence Rattigan – UK Playwright / Screenwriter – Born 10th June 1911
1979 – Laura Gilpin – US Photographer – Born 22nd April 1891
1987 – James Baldwin – US Author / Playwright / Poet / Activist – Born 2nd August 1924
1992 – Jorge Donn – Argentine Ballet – Born 25th February 1947
1997 – Kathy Acker – US Author / Playwright – Born 18th April 1947
1998 – Simon Nkoli – South African Activist – 26th November 1957
Sunday, 29 November 2009
4 Deserved Days Off
I am glad that I had something to do while I was at work, as it made each shift really speed past, but I am also resentful as I feel like I am the only supervisor doing any work. The only one putting myself out, willing to more than the minimum. It is really annoying me as I get paid exactly the same as the others and they do virtually nothing to better our working environment. It's frustrating and very demoralising. Let's hope that one day soon I get something back from this unfulfilling job, it'll be about time!
29th November
LGBT people born today:
1764 – Percy Jocelyn – Irish Bishop – Died 3rd September 1843
1915 – Billy Strayhorn – US Composer – Died 31st May 1967
1960 – Philippe Elan – French Singer
1962 – Martha Beck – US Sociologist / Therapist / Author
1965 – Guillaume Dustan – French Author / Journalist – Died 3rd October 2005
1979 – Simon Amstell – UK Comedian / Presenter
Saturday, 28 November 2009
28th November
1632 – Jean-Baptiste Lully – French Composer – Died 22nd March 1687
1887 – Ernst Rohm – German Soldier – Died 2nd July 1934
1914 – Owen Dodson – US Poet / Author / Playwright – Died 21st June 1983
1928 – Anthony Edward Dyson – UK Literary Critic / Lecturer / Activist – Died 30th July 2002
1941 – Joke Swiebel – Dutch Politician
1944 – Rita Mae Brown – US Author / Activist
1947 – Herbert Muschamp – US Architectural Critic – Died 3rd October 2007
1953 – Gordon Marsden – UK Politician
1960 – John Galliano – UK Fashion Designer
1963 – Thierry Paulin – French Serial Killer – Died 16th April 1989
1965 – Erwin Mortier – Belgian Author
1969 – Colman Domingo – US Actor
1978 – Siri Hall Arnoy – Norwegian Politician
1979 – Jonny Staub – Canadian Presenter
1982 – Roman Prada – Slovakian Porn
And those who died
1994 – Jeffrey Dahmer – US Serial Killer – Born 21st May 1960
2003 – Terry Lester – US Actor – Born 13th April 1950
2004 - Leroy F Aarons – US Journalist / Editor / Author / Playwright / Activist – Born 8th December 1933
2007 – Tony Holland – US Director / Producer – Born 18th January 1940
Friday, 27 November 2009
27th November
LGBT people born today:
1877 – Katharine Anthony – US Author – Died 20th November 1965
1883 – Edmund John – UK Poet – Died 28th February 1917
1943 – Nicole Brossard – Canadian Poet / Author
1946 – Terry Baum – US Playwright
1963 – John Aravosis – US Author / Activist
1963 – Marc Ramsbottom – UK Politician
1964 – Adam Shankman – US Actor / Director / Choreographer / Director
1972 – Jason Kingsley - South African Porn
1978 – Shy Love – US Porn / Actress
???? – Matt Windsor – UK Porn
And those who died:
1925 – Magnus Enckell – Finnish Painter – Born 9th November 1870
1978 – Harvey Milk – US Politician – Born 22nd May 1930
1993 – Jerry Hunt – US Composer – Died 30th November 1943
1995 – Simon Bailey – UK Priest / Author – Born 16th June 1955
1997 – Daniel Farson – UK Author / Journalist / Presenter – Born 8th January 1927
1998 – Douglas LePan – Canadian Diplomat / Poet / Author / Professor – Born 25th May 1914
2006 – Alan Freeman – Australian / UK Presenter – Born 6th July 1927
2007 – Jane Rule – Canadian Author – Born 28th March 1931
Thursday, 26 November 2009
First Night Back
I asked one guy to check the keys for one of our floors about a month ago. I was on days and he was on nights (it's easier to do when the staff aren't there). I came in the next morning and he proudly told me that all the keys worked, but some were labeled wrong. Excellent, I thought and proceeded to ask him where the list of the correct locations was. "Oh, I didn't write that down, you just asked me to check the keys!" This is the kind of idiot that I work with every day!
I was really pissed off this morning as, after getting in from work just after 07:00 and getting to sleep by half past I was woken up at 11:00 by my landlord letting himself into my room to show, what I presume was, a surveyor around (he is handing over the pub to the new landlord this weekend). I was not happy, but too tired to put a sentence together to tell him so. He did apologise by saying, "Well, I did knock first!" This is the kind of idiot I live with!
I couldn't get back to sleep after that, so tonight is going to be a long one I think!
Let's hope that, if the new landlord ever does this he does it with his cock hanging out because he is a very sexy looking guy, and newly single if the rumours are to be believed!
26th January
LGBT people born today
1905 – Emlyn Williams – UK Actor / Playwright – Died 25th September 1987
1915 – Earl Wild – US Pianist
1924 – Isabel Miller – US Author – Died 4th October 1996
1924 – Alma Routsong – US Author – Died 4th October 1996
1926 – Richard Hall – US Author – Died 29th October 1992
1939 – Wayland Flowers – US Puppeteer – Died 11th October 1988
1957 – Simon Nkoli – South African Activist – 30th November 1998
1966 – Sue Wicks – US Basketball
1969/77 – Sean Storm – US Porn / Director
1970 – John Amaechi – UK Basketball
1974 – Tammy Lynn Michaels – US Actress
1976 – Jack Ryan – US Porn
1979 – Jason Sechrest – US Porn / Screenwriter
And those who died:
1943 – Winnaretta Singer – US Heiress – Born 8th January 1865
1994 – Joey Stefano – US Porn – Born 1st January 1968
2006 – Mario Cesariny de Vasconcelos – Portuguese Poet – Born 9th August 1923
Wednesday, 25 November 2009
Waiting
I was slightly hopeful earlier when I received a call from a recruitment agency who had a position they thought might suit me. I prepared myself for a telephone interview only to be told that it was for a security position. NO THANK YOU. I want OUT of this god-awful industry. I want to be treated like a human being for a change, working days only, and not working 12 hours every time. I want to work with people I actually like being in the company of. I want to have something to do all day, I like being busy. Boredom makes my mind shut down. Makes me turn off. I've been turned off for the last 2 years. I need a job that will switch me on again.
Come on, someone, please press my "ON" button!!!!
25th November
LGBT people born today:
1896 – Virgil Thomson – US Composer – Died 30th September 1989
1913 – Robert Friend – US Poet / Translator – Died 12th January 1998
1942 – Rosa von Praunheim – Latvian Director / Activist
1948 – Lars Eighner – US Author
1949 – Randy Turner – US Singer – Died 18th August 2005
1955 – Bruno Toniolli – Italian / UK Dancer / Choreographer / Presenter
1956 – David B Feinberg – US Author / Activist – Died 2nd November 1994
1960 – Tonie Walsh – Irish Activist / Journalist / Presenter
1962 – Lance – US Porn – Died 26th May 1991
1968 – Craig Seymour – US Author / Photographer / Professor / Stripper / Journalist
1986 – Jason Rae – US Politician
And those who died:
1970 – Yukio Mishima – Japanese Author – Born 14th January 1925
1973 – Laurence Harvey – Lithuania / UK / South African Actor – Born 1st October 1928
1983 – Sir Anton Dolin – UK Ballet – Born 27th July 1904
2001 – Alan Bray – UK Historian / Activist – Born 13th October 1948
2005 – Pierre Seel – French Author – Born 16th August 1923
Tuesday, 24 November 2009
False Hope
As long as he is in his room, which like me he always is when he is at home, then I have terrible reception on my television. Yet another reason to want to move out.
My landlord came and told me that the new landlord should be in within a couple of weeks. Hoorah?!?
And then commented on how the handle on my door was falling off. I had actually mentioned it to him about 2 months ago when it happened, and he repeatedly had told me to look for the screw that had fallen out of it (thus loosening it) and that he would get it fixed if I couldn't. I guess it is the alcohol that had made him forget that he already knew about the door handle!
24th November
LGBT people born today:
1886 – Margaret Caroline Anderson – US Editor – Died 18th October 1973
1915 – Denise Restout – French Musician / Teacher / Author / Editor – Died 9th March 2004
1940 – Arthur Tress – US Photographer
1944 – Candy Darling – US Actress – Died 21st March 1974
And those who died:
1991 – Freddie Mercury – UK Singer – Born 5th September 1946
Monday, 23 November 2009
Friends of Friends
I get very frustrated when I look at the guys who are friends of my Facebook friends and wonder why I have not been introduced to these gorgeous specimens. I believe that it is a person's duty to ensure that their friends are happy. Therefore my suggestion is that you send a message to all of your single friends and ask them if there is a person on your friends list who they may be attracted to. Then, if you know that person to be single, you approach them with the idea of arranging an introduction. It could be the start of a wonderful partnership (or a stalking nightmare if you are just Facebook friends and do not actually know the person).
I have dropped hints with my friends about introducing me to their gorgeous friends before, but I am guessing that either my hints were too subtle, which I doubt, or my friends too dense. The third option, that I am not someone that anyone wants to admit to knowing, is something I am trying not to believe.
I was reminded of this "friends having gorgeous friends" thing the other day when I saw an posting on Facebook announcing that my friend Gareth had become friends with someone. I always check out my gay friends' new friends, just in case, and lo-and-behold, Gareth's new friend was a guy I had been cruising the last time I was out!
Do you think it is a game / practice that will catch on? I doubt it, so I guess I'll just keep my virtual "mouth" shut.
Horny?
Sitting In Comfort (For a Change)
It was a nightmare getting it home though. Although it wasn't particularly heavy, it was just that little bit too big to be held comfortably in my arms. Therefore I kept having to stop every 100 metres or so to readjust the way I was holding it. It didn't help that I also had a carrier bag which was swinging against my legs as I was walking. I was so glad to get home finally and be able to put it together (which was relatively simple, luckily).
I am now sitting in comfort and all I have to worry about now is disposing of the large cardboard box it came in (the recycling people won't take it away being so large, figure that one out), and getting rid of the wooden storage box, which is now falling apart due to my excessive weight bearing down on it for the last year or so! Along with either throwing away, or finding new homes for the junk sat inside it!
23rd November
LGBT people born today:
1939 – bill bissett – Canadian Poet
1948 – Bruce Vilanch – US Scriptwriter / Comedian / Actor
And those who died:
1998 – Gene Moore – US Window Dresser – Born 1910
2002 – Boudewijn Buch – Dutch Author / Presenter – Born 14th December 1948
Sorry it's a bit sparse today. Anyone know of someone I missed from the list? Please let me know.
Sunday, 22 November 2009
22nd November
LGBT people born today:
1869 – Andre Gide – French Author – Died 19th February 1951
1913 – Benjamin Britten – UK Composer – Died 4th December 1976
1915 – James Gleeson – Australian Artist / Poet / Author / Critic – Died 20th October 2008
1941 – Nicholas Dante – US Dancer / Author – Died 21st May 1991
1943 – Peter Adair – US Director / Artist – Died 27th June 1996
1943 – Billy Jean King – US Tennis
1950 – Art Sullivan – Belgian Singer
1958 – Horse McDonald – UK Singer / Musician
1960 – Christopher Ciccone – US Artist / Screenwriter / Director
1961 – Stephen Hough – UK / Australian Pianist / Composer / Author
1961 – Pedro Marin – Spanish Singer / Actor / Presenter
1964 – Stephen Geoffreys – US Actor / Porn
1976 – Yves Steinhauer – Canadian / Luxembourg / Dutch Singer
1977 – Lucian Dunareanu – Romanian Activist / Editor
1982 – Alasdair Duncan – Australian Author / Journalist
And those who died:
1902 – Friedrich Alfred Krupp – German Businessman – Born 17th February 1854
1918 – Rose Cleveland – US First Lady – Born 13th June 1846
1943 – Lorenz Hart – US Lyricist – Born 2nd May 1895
Saturday, 21 November 2009
Strictly Losing Interest
Jade is out of the competition due to her injury, which is really bad news as there are really only two couples now who are worthy of winning the trophy based upon their dancing abilities, Ricky & Natalie and Ali & Brian.
Ricky & Natalie performed a great American Smooth tonight with an amazingly difficult lift made to look easy by the fabulous Mr Whittle.
Next week could be interesting, as it will be a challenge for both the celebrities and the professionals. The remaining couples will be dancing either a Charleston or a Rock & Roll dance. Should be good.
Tonight's dance off was between Ricky & Erin and Laila & Anton. I was really hoping that Laila would be gone, but tonight she actually did a good job, especially as she apparently only had about 6 hours of training. I just do not like her as she just doesn't seem to care about the competition or try enough, especially when she doesn't like the dance. Unfortunately all the judges seem to love her which is why she has survived the dance off so many times. Get rid!
21st November
LGBT people born today:
1844 – Francis Leon – US Female Impersonator – Died ????
1886 – Harold Nicolson – UK Author / Diplomat / Politician – Died 1st May 1968
1929 – Laurier LaPierre – Canadian Politician / Presenter / Author / Journalist
1931 – Malcolm Williamson – Australian Composer – Died 2nd March 2003
1938 – Robert Drivas – US Actor / Director – Died 29th June 1986
1947 – Nickolas Grace – UK Actor
1952 – Corny Littman – German Football Club President
1956 – Cherry Jones – US Actress
1962 – Christine Vachon – US Producer
1963 – Moises Kaufman – Venezuelan Author / Playwright / Producer
And those who died:
1999 – Quentin Crisp – UK Author / Actor – Born 25th December 1908
Friday, 20 November 2009
Made It
On Thursday morning I was woken by my alarm and made it to work in a daze, feeling dizzy and a bit disorientated. I made it through the day. And today, began the same, though not quite as bad (dizzywise), and I soon forgot about it as I had a fire evacuation practice to take my mind off of things for a couple of hours. It was still a long day (long four days).
Now I am off for 4 days and then unfortunately back to work on nights from Wednesday. I won't be going out this weekend, because I still feel ill, and I can't really go and visit Tim (as I had hoped, and had wanted to do on the Monday just gone too), as I don't want to give him my virus, especially considering that he has an operation coming up in less than a month. I don't want to make him feel worse than he already does, or jeopardise his chances of having this op over and done with as soon as possible.
So, it looks like it will be 4 days all alone. That will make a change! I'm going to bed now.
20th November
LGBT people born today:
1898 – Grace Darmond – Canadian / US Actress – Died 8th October 1963
1924 – Genevieve Pastre – French Author
1941 – Oliver Sipple – US Soldier – Died 2nd February 1989
1942 – Meredith Monk – US Composer / Musician / Director / Singer / Choreographer
1956 – Benno Thoma – Dutch Photographer
1979 – William “Willie” Hernandez – US Reality TV [Real World: Philadelphia] / Actor
1981 – Eric de la Cruz – Filipino Actor
???? – Paul Johnson – US Army / Porn
???? – Gage Weston – US Marines / Porn
And those who died:
1965 – Katharine Anthony – US Author – Died 27th November 1877
1993 – Emile Ardolino – US Director / Producer – Born 9th May 1943
1995 – Steven Powsner – US Activist – Born ????
1999 – Sadao Hasegawa – Japanese Artist – Born 1945?
2006 – Dirk Dirksen – US Music Promoter – Born 25th August 1937
Thursday, 19 November 2009
19th November
LGBT people born today:
1889 – Clifton Webb – US Actor / Dancer / Singer – Died 13th October 1966
1896 – Anton Walbrook – Austrian Actor – Died 9th August 1967
1908/12 – Gisele Freund – French Photographer – Died 31st March 2000
1919 – Morris Kight – US Activist – Died 19th January 2003
1953 – Tom Villard – US Actor – Died 14th November 1994
1959 – Timothy Conigrave – Australian Actor – Died 18th October 1994
1962 – Jodie Foster – US Actress / Director
1963 – Klaus Bondam – Danish Actor / Politician
And those who died:
1958 – Hans Heinrich von Twardowski – German / US Actor – Born 5th May 1898
1974 – Louise Fitzhugh – US Author / Illustrator – Born 5th October 1928
Wednesday, 18 November 2009
To Be (Sick), Or Not To Be (Sick)?
I eventually decided that I would call in sick and had to get out of bed to get my notebook as I didn't have the head office number I needed stored in my phone. When I stood up, I felt much better and so couldn't justify to myself calling in sick. I went back to bed and instantly felt worse again. The very act of laying down was making me feel worse! That concluded it for me then. There was no point in calling in sick, and losing a day's money, if I wouldn't feel any worse at work than at home.
The only problem was that, by the time I had made my final decision it was far too late to go back to bed (and I would have felt worse anyway). So, I had my shower early (thereby missing the usual morning competition with Visar, my flatmate who has recently decided to get up 10 minutes earlier than he used to just to mess up my routine!). After my shower I got dressed and then had a quick lay down until my alarm went off telling me it was time to leave for work.
It was a very long day and I am now knackered! I think I could well be going to bed by 21:00 tonight, which is never heard of!
18th November
LGBT people born today:
1872 – Sir Edward Marsh – UK Translator – Died 13th January 1953
1877 – Arthur Cecil Pigou – UK Economist – Died 7th March 1959
1906 – Klaus Mann – German Author – Died 21st May 1949
1944 – Jackie Goldberg – US Politician / Teacher
1944 – Wolfgang Joop – German Fashion Designer
1985 – Kemal Shahin – Turkish / UK Reality TV [Big Brother]
1985 – Christian Siriano – US Reality TV [Project: Runway] / Fashion Designer
And those who died:
1909 – Renee Vivien – UK Poet – Born 11th June 1877
1928 – Mauritz Stiller – Finnish Director / Screenwriter – Born 17th July 1883
1966 – Mike Connolly – US Reporter / Columnist – Born 1914
1986 – Gia Carangi – US Model – Born 29th January 1960
1996 – William John Christopher Vassall – UK RAF / Spy – Born 20th September 1924
1999 – Paul Bowles – US Author / Composer / Translator / Photographer – Born 30th December 1910
1999 – Horst P Horst – German / US Photographer – Born 14th August 1906
1999 – Ralph Pomeroy – US Poet – Born 1926
Tuesday, 17 November 2009
Better
When I got to work everything was messy and misplaced, as it always seems to be when I have any amount of time off. My work life would be so much less stressful if the other supervisors weren't there to mess up "my" stuff. Then again that would mean that I would have to be there more, which is not a good thing!
I had almost 2 weeks of emails to read through, to make sure that I didn't miss anything. One of them was a request from the Facilities Manager asking if any of the security staff had done anything worth praising or mentioning to raise our profile. I felt like telling her that I could do with something other than a pat on the head for the 2 weeks of hard work that I put in for less than my usual daily wage! I still can't believe that I got absolutely nothing for doing them such a favour!
I am already counting down the days until my next day off (Saturday). Let's hope that I am feeling 100% by then!
17th November
LGBT people born today:
1851 – Lord Arthur Somerset – UK Aristocrat / Major – Died 26th May 1926
1925 – Rock Hudson – US Actor – Died 2nd October 1985
1960 – Daniel O’Donnell – US Politician
1960 – RuPaul – US Drag Queen / Singer / Actor / Model
1961 – Jose Villarrubia – Spanish Comic Book Artist
1969 – Rebecca Walker – US Author
1983 – Brad Star – US Navy / Porn
1985 – Shay Jordan – Filipino / US Porn
And those who died:
1992 – Audre Lorde – US Author / Poet / Activist – Born 18th February 1934
1996 – Kurt von Ruffin – German Actor / Singer – Born 3rd September 1901
2001 – Aaron Webster – Canadian Hate Crime Victim – Born ?? June 1959
Monday, 16 November 2009
Typical Man?
Feeling Off Colour
I am feeling really lethargic, my stomach feels bloated, I have a headache and my eyes keep watering. My discomfort is not eased whatever position I adopt, whether if be sitting up, laying on my back, front or side, or walking around.
I think I probably need to throw up, but can never face making myself do it, so shall just have to wait and see what happens.
I really am not sure what is actually wrong with me but I hope it goes soon, as I want to be feeling 100% for tomorrow. Going back to work is bad enough after 12 days off, but I'm not feeling well at the same time then it will be even more of a hell for me.
16th November
1936 – Morton Beiser – Canadian Professor / Psychiatrist
1952 – Glenn Burke – US Baseball – Died 30th May 1995
1958 – Anne Holt – Norwegian Author / Politician / Lawyer
1964 – Waheed Alli – UK Politician
1966 – Gerard Duphiney – US Reality TV [Amazing Race 3]
1970 – Jamie Babbit – US Director / Producer / Screenwriter
1974 – Zsolt Kopazs – Hungarian Porn
1983 – Gus Carr – US Actor / Dancer / Singer / Songwriter
1983 – Ukea Davis – US Hate Crime Victim – Died 12th August 2002
And those who died:
2000 – Russ Conway – UK Pianist – Died 2nd September 1925